Setting Yourself Up For Success
We don’t rise to the level of our challenges; we fall to the level of our preparation.
“Commitment devices” set us up for long-term success, using our bodies and brains in the way they’ve evolved to be used.
We’re wired to save energy. For thousands of years, our brains and bodies have evolved to seek the path of least friction–in other words, we take the easiest route. We’re pretty good at it.
We scroll through Instagram because it’s easier than getting out of bed. We put off our lunch because it’s cold outside…and then hit the snack machines because there’s no other food nearby.
Building good habits doesn’t mean overcoming bad ones, or ramping up our motivation to suddenly change overnight. Those kind of changes don’t stick. Instead, we need to leverage our natural human tendencies.
A “commitment device” is a choice you make NOW that will control your actions in the future. For example, if you make an appointment with your personal trainer, you’ll show up at the gym. If you join a soccer team, you’ll show up for their games.
And if you prepare your lunches in advance for the week, you’ll eat them.
Here are two very simple commitment devices you can set up right now:
- Book your appointments or reserve spots in CrossFit Mahwah classes for the week.
Reserve your 1:1 appointments or save your spot in a group.
(We don’t require a reservation for most of our groups. But make that commitment anyway.)
- Write down your lunches for the week.
To make it easy, either eat the same thing every day, OR plan your dinners for the week and carry the leftovers over to the next day’s lunches.
Write up your grocery list.
Go to the store.
Buy the groceries you’ll need for all of your lunches.
Set aside 1 hour for food prep TONIGHT.
Chop up your vegetables, proteins, nuts and seeds. Put them into separate containers.
Make enough for the full week.
Here’s Cherie and Matt Chan doing meal prep:
You don’t need to get fancy: most of us eat the same thing most of the time, and that’s just fine. Save your variety for dinner.
Commitment devices remove friction and the burden of choice. Do your future self a favor: make commitments in advance!